Trust Is Earned
Just as sure as a baby will poop in its
diaper there will be people in this life that you instinctively trust.
Your mom (she gave birth to you), your dada
(he was there at the important time, right?), sisters, brothers,
childhood friends, cousins, aunts, uncles, classmates… people that you
would, and maybe even should be able to, trust.
You'll freely give them information about yourself, you'll (usually
without hesitation) allow them to use things that you own, you may even
lend/borrow them some money (or other prized possession) so that you
feel better about yourself for helping a person in need.
You TRUSTED them.
And now you've come to learn a valuable
lesson…
TRUST is EARNED. It is not a GIFT to be
given FREELY to PEOPLE that have NO interest in YOU being a BETTER
person.
Do you hear me?
When you TRUST someone you are giving to
them what you yourself wished you had.
With giving your trust you are being the
BIGGER person.
And you feel GOOD about yourself. – For a
while at least… until you've figured out (or more likely had shoved in
your face) that you've been mislead, abused, taken advantage of… and had
your TRUST abused.
And this is no SMALL thing.
And this should remain NO small thing.
Revenge is not only WANTED it is NEEDED…
fort your sanity, your well-being, your self-respect.
WHO among us can respect themselves when
that BIGGER part of us, the TRUST part, has been stolen, denigrated,
abused and tossed aside?
NOT me… not YOU.
SWEET revenge is a must.
Let time pass…. Let the seasons change… let
our hurt simmer in the pot of "what will happen"… our VERY being of
being what we were before this transgression REQUIRES us to seek revenge
in the dark of night... in the shadows of the unknown… at the time of
OUR choosing.
Let us LEARN to trust again by being CAPABLE
of punishing those that STEAL our trust… in mind and action we can
regain our humanity, our humility, our self-worth and personality.
We can RETURN to being OUR SELF once again.
Trustful.
SWEET REVENGE.
Remember:
{} You can never take
back revenge. Revenge is the final resting place for any interaction you may ever have with the person you have as your target. There is no going back.
{} When setting up
revenge protect yourself first. Always, ALWAYS write down the events that happen to you that may require
later revenge. Dates, times, people's names. You may need them for one thing or another.
{} Revenge is
revenge. Revenge requires anonymity. If you're going to say "Ha ha, in your face!" or "I got you good!" you don't want revenge, go look to prank the person instead
at some other website.
{}
Revenge takes time. Revenge is best served cold. Revenge is a
tough meat that needs to stew for a very long time before being it
is ready to be served effectively. Of course, you could just
'MySpace' your husband's stalker.
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