Dear
Revenge Guy,
I am writing you because I have reached my wit's end.
I am a myspace
user, as so many people are, and have been the target of not one but
TWO ex friends' fraudulent-profile creations- with me as target, my
fiancé as target, or both simultaneously.
I cut these two
friends out of my life within a year of each other because I saw
alarming patterns in their behavior which led me to believe that
they had severe emotional problems due to the way they treated other
people.
On and off, and
then, most recently, for the past week- the fake profiles have been
brought to my attention because:
A) they've contained my telephone number (which I will have to
change now)
B) my name
C) my fiancé's name
D) information about my personal life and/or past, or
E) any combination of these.
These pages are
absolutely pathetic. They mock the ring my fiancé gave me- calling
it cheap and crappy (it's not huge, but he's a student!), calling
him gay, calling ME a man, fat, ugly or anything else cruel and
abusive you can possibly think of.
I have gone to the
police with all of the pages printed out and told them who I KNEW to
be the perpetrators... but they, unfortunately, can not do anything
for me because there is no way for them to directly link the
profiles to these two individuals.
I've tried every
way possible to block them from contacting me, but they keep finding
a way. I did my best to ignore it for a while, but recently, I've
found myself blurting out scathing retorts to them in messages-
because I JUST CANNOT CONTAIN MYSELF ANYMORE. What is their motive?
And what should I do- since everything I have tried simply does not
seem to work.
-Tormented
Hi
Tormented,
What you do is call the police, again and again.
You have the
evidence, maybe a Revenge Call will sort out the small details (www.revengecall.com)
if you talk nicely enough to them, like you're a MySpace
exec/security person and have an issue with certain postings.
MySpace is great at
tracking down fake profile creators when there is the possibility of
criminal charges. And lawyers love these types of lawsuit cases,
personal liability suits can stifle a person's career easily.
Police will act
strongly and talk to these people when all the evidence is set out
for them. Really, unless it's a TV sex crime the cops aren't so
quick to take issue with fake profile creators but once you have
some evidence, even if you can't get a criminal charge against these
miscreants you certainly have a civil suit worth many thousand$.
Scare them silly.
Get a lawyer and have him send a letter as well as get a restraining
order against them.
Don’t wimp out, go after these two with every legal tool there is!!
And a couple of scary revenge calls too!
Dear
Revenge Guy,
Good advice here on your site.
I think I have read
through all of the ones posted here, but cannot seem to find
anything that gets the job done the way i want it done.
Here is the scenario:
My GF's sister has been posting terrible things about me on her
myspace page. These things are all opinion and there fore she cannot
be sued for slander unfortunately. Whether or not they are opinions
they make me look like a total Jack A$$. They are so bad that if
someone reads them they will truly change their opinion of me, I'm
talking my GF or her family, or associates of mine.
Do you have any suggestions here? I want to fight fire with fire,
and I want to cause her as much pain as she has caused me, but I am
having trouble figuring out a way.
Help Please!!!
Thanks,
Henry
Hi
Henry,
Just because she's publishing her opinion doesn't mean that she has
any freedom to do so. Lies are still lies.
There is a very fine line here and she's crossed it. And you should
seek revenge.... to shake her back into the reality that what she
does affects those around her more than what she thinks is in her
own little selfish world... bitch.
Get a friend to call her from the local "Police department, Internet
bureau" to investigate a complaint.
www.RevengeCall.com is
great for this.
Then have another friend call her from "MySpace.com security
department" about the objectionable content. Again using
www.RevengeCall.com but
changing the voice and the caller display.
Tell her that she must remove the content or face having her site
taken down and paying for the considerable fees involved since this
is now a police matter.
Scare her good.
This is not a
"fight fire with fire" issue because if you really love your gf then
you'll have her sister forever at your elbow... so don't go all
nutso over this... kids are stupid... don't fall into the trap of
playing the game out on her level, but use the tools available to
shake her up and out of her jealous little world.
Play it out but be
the adult.
The "Internet"
never forgets.
