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Dear
Revenge Guy,
Here's the story:
My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years has a crazy ex, let's call her Cindy. She is
also the mother of his 10 year old child, Matt.
Cindy has refused to let us have Matt on
numerous occasions, by telling the police that my boyfriend sells drugs,
hits her, so on and so forth.
At one point last fall, after not seeing
Matt for over 6 months, Cindy finally shows up at the designated meeting
spot (they have to meet in public to exchange the child because my
boyfriend is so unpredictable and violent, according to her) only to
have two police cars follow in behind her. They arrest my boyfriend for
driving on a suspended license because of an unpaid ticket. This is all
in front of Matt who is crying and sobbing. My boyfriend had to perform
20 hours of community service and pay $150 fine. The community service
hours had to be performed at a certain time, which happened to be on our
anniversary.
Now, today, Cindy is again threatening to
send the police to our house because my boyfriend is 'threatening' her
by not driving 2 hours one way to drop Matt back off, because she
doesn't 'feel' like driving anywhere.
She bad mouths my boyfriend in front of
Matt, told Matt that I was nothing but a white trash whore (yes used
those words). She makes our lives hell, even though she is remarried and
had another child (oh yeah, I forgot, my boyfriend also made her have a
miscarriage because he yelled at her over the phone, he 'killed' matt's
baby brother or sister, more lies as told by Cindy).
I need to find a way to punish this woman
for all the pain she has caused my boyfriend and the damage she had done
to her son. Her husband is a CIA agent, so I have to be careful. But
please if you have any ideas I would extremely grateful.
Beaten On
Hi
Beaton On,
It's time to detail all the events, journal
everything with dates, times and events; have your boyfriend fly
straight; and call a lawyer. Revenge here isn't the answer, retribution
through the legal system is.
It's time also to get the custody agreement reworked, I think. This
is where you need the lawyer and the journal of events. Personally,
I'd be spending a ton of money on recording equipment to get all
these lies on tape and present them to the judge at the next court
appearance.
Because of the ongoing harassment maybe it's time to curtail the
visits with Matt because having the child in the midst of this isn't
fair to him.
Let Matt know that there will be no more visits because of his
mother's behavior. Matt is old enough to understand why his parents
are in different families, why he can only see his dad occasionally
and why there is a judge that your boyfriend and Matt's mother needs
to see sometimes.
Maybe the point will be made.
Cindy does sound beyond crazy to the point of abusiveness and
violence.
Her husband being a CIA agent is likely a lie. Agents don't talk
about their employment.
Maybe start sending her husband some flowers from "A Special
Valentine" to her home. And I'd post up some room for rent signs for
her home just to keep her busy as well.
