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Valentine's Day is coming so here's a story of a woman being screwed over. Seems so fitting!
Hi
Revenge Guy,
I'm not usually a vengeful person but that's exactly why I'm turning
to you for help because this is a situation that POSITIVELY REQUIRES
revenge be taken and justice be served.
If it can't help me quit getting used then maybe they won't do it to
others like me again so here goes:
I have been in a live-in relationship for 3 years with the man i
believed to finally be the ultimate love of my life. we mostly got along
and were on the same unified track for the future or at least he never
let on differently ever in any way.
We made an agreement in the beginning: he said simply that i couldnt "yell" at him, which we never fought EVER so i said ok wishing now i knew how vague and easily manipulated that would be later on. I was VERY specific however, in my "taboos" for him cuz i really liked him but i had some really bad stuff happen in past relationships and i had just clawed my way up from the bottom and was ok with just being friends with benefits cuz i didn't really want a relationship again at that time cuz i wanted to be sure so the next time would be the last and i didn't want to be alone if it wasn't so i HAD to be sure.
He was so sincere and seemed so committed that i reluctantly agreed but with stipulations: Don't LIE to me, don't CHEAT on me and don't be here NOW if you don't see yourself even REMOTELY here in a couple of years cuz im really good with just being friends right now cuz i don't ever wanna lose that.
Life went on and overall was good though we had a few bumps here and there - we toughed it out together and eventually pulled through. We had a real bad time last November when we moved into a new house with his elderly dad and he suddenly was out of work.
No biggie he always pulled through somehow. this time though he wouldn't work for anybody he normally did when in a pinch and i tried to help him by selling furniture he made on ebay and other stuff through my friends but he just stubbornly wasn't satisfied with anything and i began to feel the heavy financial burden (his dad too).
4 months went by and he started to be mean to me and treated me like crap when he treated everyone else like kings though i bent over backwards for him and he was spoiled rotten just as i always had only now he EXPECTED and demanded it but no longer earned it. 6 months went by and we were regularly sparring usually because he wasn't even trying by then and was everybody's friend but mine and was nice to everyone but me so i snapped finally and yelled as he says.
He didn't say he could yell first all he wanted, treat me like crap, provoke me or push my buttons deliberately or whatever when he said i could't yell at him or i never would have gone there. nor did i ever think he would do these things to get me there.
So he split to a town he SWORE TO EVERYONE he would never go back to and never mentioned he even considered it before then so it was just out of the blue and i was glad to see him go for the moment.
He called 6 days later and that's how i found out but we kind of made up and he came home for about 3 weeks then again reluctantly went back but each and every weekend for the next 4 months we saw each other and were becoming closer and closer all the while making plans (HIM painting the picture) to "winter" in town and move up there in the spring but he knew I wouldnt without a job and being a smaller town then the one we had a home at, that would be difficult. Winter was coming in and i didn' actt know how i could come much longer but he was coming home on weekends to but weather is super bad and treacherous so??
Next thing i know, we (couldnt really be called a fight) we disagreed cuz he said something that cut right to my jugular emotion and i didn't fight with him instead I fell asleep on bottom bunk of camper cuz i couldnt leave being stuck in the mud as he got me til morning which when i went to leave was about the only time this fight occured but i was only crying and being in the mud was making it worse.
Finally i went home and let things cool off. week goes by and i call and he is being the meanest cruelest most horrible he has ever been to me and said for me to stay away etc. and then hung up.
2 weeks go by he comes down says he's gone stay and talk leaves and goes back without telling me. I go up on halloween he acts as if all is well again, but im nervous cuz we hadnt talked at all but it wasn't the nite to broach it yet and he was being really sweet while making his costume etc. never did anything else happen til the end of the nite when i went to go home cuz i had to work next day. all of a sudden he started being mean again saying it was over, etc. and as i went dazed and shocked to my car he kept saying see u next weekend.
i called but wasnt about to go up there til i knew what was up and he was rite back to being evil and mean and neasty to me. kept hanging up on me. soKeptbe i quit calling but he would call here and talk to my kids or his dad and first thing hed ask was about me and he sounded sad each time.
To make a long story short, too much more happened to squeeze in here, he is not the cheating type EVERYONE always thought but i knew in my heart he was cuz no man would be that cruel to someone who did nothing unless he was and his son coming home from school for the holidays was my trump card cuz he would not say.
Sure enough they tried to pass it off as only 2 weeks but his son Who
stayed with us though his dad stayed up there, said they acted as if it
was much longer.
he would not lket me confront any issues since halloween wouldnt talk to
me and wouldnt allow me closure actn instead kept hanging up on me and
to this day 1/19/10 we have not talked even to say ok its over and
goodbye. EVERYONE HIS SON AND DAD INCLUDED IS SO PISSED AT HIM. my
daughter says he didnt want me to find out so he could come back after
winter and knowing cheating would never be forgiVEN but winter required
shelter up there cuz october was already too cold and he wouldnt make it
thru winter in the camper. supposedly it was a "sympathy fuck" for her
dead husband but she began to expect more and since he was beginning to
stay there. . .???
i dont care everything about it on both sides was wrong and she missed her husband so bad how does she think i now grieve for the love of my life? shes not sad now and he is not happy but he feels bad for her and not me or anyone he left behind here and he is a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PERSON ACCORDING TO ALL WHO KNEW AND LOVED HIM, i will never trust another soul again and he knew that from the start should he not be right. so even if i had future happiness waiting i would run from it in fear cuz the 3rd time is not a charm and too many to believe again.
I want them both to feel the loss THEY CAUSED IN MY LIFE AND IM NOT VERY GOOD WITH COMING UP WITH IDEAS LET ALONE APPROPRIATE ONES that wont get me into trouble so please please please help me with this asap - theres so much more that makes this sound lame but this is really the short version after all this time has passed but i still cry everyday and he still drinks everyday and she isnt unhappy or missing her husband anymore.
BUT I DO EACH AND EVERYDAY. SO i need it for both and please help me before i get any nuttier over this!!!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME AND ANY HELP YOU CAN GIVE
FOREVER GRAteful
p.s. she owns a tree nursery that her husband had so of course it is
convenient for both but this happened cuz i am a friend of one of the
husbands brothers at this nursery down here and they were old friends so
he sent him up there at my request a few months prior to this to selln
her some trees. thats when it started. told u there was too much more to
put in here but it is way worse now and imperative i have revenge so it
will quit consuming my life and i can hopefully move on then. thanks
again!
Hi
Some Lady,
Honestly, it seems to me that you hid the truth about this guy from
yourself all the time. Starting with just screwing around, without a
commitment, means that YOU were not ready to commit, not him.
You should have drawn a line right there.
As far as your "rules" what the hell? Relationships grow and mature, mostly, yours withered right from the start.
Twice, likely more, you let this ass back into your life?
Are you that desperate to need a man that you'll invite such a piece
of trash in?
The rule is you give a man every chance to love you and one chance to
screw you over. You broke that rule.
First off, you need to cut all ties with this guy, his family, everyone. Hell, Hawaii always seems like a great place to live to me, why not move? As long as you can continue this pity party with his relatives, and whatever friends you might have left, you'll never heal, you'll never be over him.
As for revenge, here you go:
Start sending Valentine's Day cards now. To Him. To Her. From people
they might know in whatever town either might have been to. Addressed
from strangers maybe. Let them think that the other has been screwing
around. Use www.revengecall.com
and leave messages, love messages, on their voice mail. Change the
caller id so the call can't be returned. leave messages from people that
say they owe money. play with their minds, you know what works best.
Send him a registered letter detailing all the money he owes you. Throw him into a panic. Wreak their relationship.
And damn it all, get some counselling and stay single until your
daughter grows up. And no more FWB. Those never work well except for the
guy that gets a freebie with no commitments.
Good Luck,
RG
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